Depression: What It Is and What to Do about It
Depression can be triggered by past negative family events and loneliness. It is usually a low grade
depression made more intense by the upcoming holidays and can result in a serious depression.
a serious illness, not a harmless part of life. It is a complex disorder with a variety of causes. It is never caused by just
one thing. It may be the result of a mix of factors, including genetic, chemical, physical, interpersonal, family and sociological.
It is also influenced by behavior patterns learned in the family and by cognitive distortions.
Depression affects millions
of people in this country. It is always troubling, and for some people it can be disabling. Sadness or “the blues” can be
a symptom of Depression. It can have an impact on nearly every aspect of a person’s life. People who suffer from depression
may experience despair and worthlessness, and this can have an enormous impact on both personal and professional relationships.
Below, I will describe many of the factors that may cause depression, and I will explore strategies for preventing it.
When a person suffers from depression, it can affect every part of his or her life, including one’s physical
body, one’s behavior, thought processes, mood, ability to relate to others, and general lifestyle.
Symptoms of Depression
who are diagnosed with clinical depression have a combination of symptoms from the following list:
• Feelings of
hopelessness, even when there is reason to be hopeful
• Fatigue or low energy
• Much less interest or pleasure
in most regular activities
• Low self-esteem
• Feeling worthless
• Excessive or inappropriate guilt
ability to think or concentrate
• Thinking distorted thoughts; having an unrealistic view of
• Weight loss or gain without dieting
• Change in appetite
• Change in sleeping patterns
thoughts of death
• Suicidal thoughts or cutting one’s self
• A specific plan for committing suicide
• Feelings of restlessness or being slowed down
When a person is suffering from depression,
these symptoms cause significant distress or impairment in social, occupational, or other important areas of functioning.
This means that the person’s family and social relationships, as well as work life, are impaired.
When a person is suffering
from depression, symptoms such as these are not the result of a chronic psychotic disorder, substance abuse, general medical
condition, or bereavement.
Grief, Sadness, and Depression
Depression may include feelings of sadness, but it
is not the same as sadness. Depression lasts much longer than sadness at least two weeks. While depression involves a loss
of self-esteem, grief, disappointment and sadness do not. People who are depressed function less productively. People who
are sad or disappointed continue to function.
Depression and Socioeconomic Factors
Depression does not seem
to be related to ethnicity, education, income, or marital status. It strikes slightly more women than men. Some researchers
believe that depression strikes more often in women who have a history of emotional and sexual abuse, economic deprivation,
or are dependent on others. There seems to be a genetic link; depression is more common among parents, children, and siblings
of people who are diagnosed with depression. The average age at the onset of a depressive episode is the mid-20s. People born
more recently are being diagnosed at a younger age.
Many physicians believe that depression
results from a chemical imbalance in the brain. They often prescribe antidepressant medication, and many people find relief
as a result. However, there is no reliable test to identify such a chemical imbalance. It is unknown whether life experiences
cause mood changes, which create changes in brain chemistry, or whether it works in reverse.
Depression may be associated
with physical events such as other diseases, physical trauma, and hormonal changes. A person who is depressed should always
have a physical examination as part of the assessment process to determine the role of physical causes.
There are three
basic ways to treat depression: psychotherapy, self-help, and medication. Many people respond best to a combination of two
or more methods.
1. Psychotherapy: Exploring one’s beliefs and ways of thinking, and learning new ways of thinking
and behaving, with the guidance of a professional.
2. Self-help: Exploring one’s beliefs and ways of thinking on one’s
3. Medication: Altering one’s brain chemistry by taking antidepressant medication.
A physician may recommend
medication when four conditions exist:
1. The patient’s depression is severe.
2. The patient has suffered
at least two previous depressive episodes.
3. There is a family history of depression.
4. The patient asks
for medication only and refuses psychotherapy.
There are four types of antidepressant medication available today:
• Monoamine oxidase inhibitors (MAOIs)
• Selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs)
The TCAs and MAOIs have been used for decades. The SSRIs (such as Prozac) and structurally unrelated
compounds are newer and are being prescribed more and more frequently. They have fewer and less pronounced side effects than
the TCAs and MAOIs.
Treatment without Medicine
One of the leading methods for treating depression is cognitive
therapy. Cognitive therapists help depressed clients feel better by identifying how faulty ways of thinking are making him
or her feel bad. The client analyzes his or her thoughts and beliefs, and learns to substitute more healthy ways of thinking
Many mental health professionals believe that the ideal treatment of clinical depression is medication in
conjunction with psychotherapy.
Prevention of Depression
Depression can often be prevented. It is especially
important to take preventive action if you are aware that you have predisposing factors such as those mentioned in the last
1. Identify your risk factors and be aware of where you are vulnerable. Each of us has unique risk
factors, such as things we were taught in our families of origin, values we have learned, and the presence or absence of a
family history of depression. Anything that has been learned can be unlearned and replaced with something healthier.
to manage stress. You can learn proven techniques for calming and relaxing yourself. Consider taking a stress management class
or buying a set of relaxation tapes.
3. Learn problem-solving skills. Many people who develop depression never learned
problem-solving skills. They need to develop the ability to see problems from many viewpoints and to look for a variety of
4. Build your life around things you can control. Learn to recognize what you can control and what you can’t.
Avoid spending much effort on situations that won’t pay off for you.
5. Learn self-acceptance. Instead of rejecting
the parts of yourself you don’t like, learn to manage them more productively.
6. Become aware of selective perception.
Observe how you generate ideas and opinions about people and events. Remember that these are just your views, not necessarily
7. Focus on the future, not the past. Depressed people tend to be focused on the past. People who
set goals and focus on the future tend to be more positive about life.
8. Develop a sense of purpose. Many depressed
people lack a sense of purpose or meaning. This means they have no goals and nothing in the future drawing them forward. To
prevent depression, develop your sense of purpose and meaning.
9. Strengthen your emotional boundaries and set limits.
Boundaries define your role in a social situation. They determine how you will or won’t behave in a given situation. Having
clear, strong boundaries is empowering, while boundary violations make you feel victimized and helpless. Setting limits means
having and enforcing rules for the behaviors you expect in a relationship.
10. Build positive and healthy relationships.
Think about what you need from others in relationships. Learn to read people and trust your instincts about which people are
good for you.
11. Avoid isolation. Talk to others about what’s going on with you. If you keep your thoughts to yourself,
you may be unaware that your thoughts are distorted. If you share them with another person, you can become more objective.
That Professional Therapy Is Needed
1. Thinking about death or suicide. This is always dangerous and you should
see a professional therapist immediately.
2. When symptoms of depression continue for a long time, you may need professional
help. Acute responses to events are normal, but they should not last beyond a reasonable time.
3. Your ability to function
is impaired by your depression. Seek help before your life situation deteriorates to a serious level.
4. You have become
so isolated that you have no one with whom to test reality. Seek someone out to share your thoughts and feelings with.
symptoms have become severe.
Dr. Bob Sindoni is a licensed therapist in Tarrytown, NY. Call 914.631.7690 for
your free consultation. WWW.DRBOB123.COM